Lists

I have never really done a “40 before 40″ or any other kind of list post so on the eve of the eve of the 41st anniversary of my birth, I’m going to give you a few.  I have some things I want to write down.  A bit of goal setting, a bit of “publishing”, you know?

Here is list 1:

2 before 42:

1. Lose 100 pounds.  Yes, 100.  Currently I am pushing the maximum density and I have had enough.

2.  Be able to ride my bike 25 miles, run 5K and swim 500 meters.

Before 50

1.  Accomplish the 2 before 42.

2.  Bike a Century.

3.  Finish a Triathlon.  (Probably not a full since I really have no desire to run a full marathon)

4.  Learn Russian.

5.  Learn German.

6.  Learn Spanish.

7.  Learn Italian.

8.  Work with entrepreneurs in Russa (and other developing countries).

9. Visit (or live in) Germany.

10.  Visit Spain.

11.  Visit (or live in) Italy (Remember Under The Tuscan Sun?  That could be me except for the divorced part).

12.  Visit Japan.

13.  Visit Australia and New Zealand.

14.  Learn to roller blade.

15.  Go Deep Sea Fishing.

16.  Visit Hawaii.

17.  Climb a mountain.

18.  Get a career.  So sick of all this perpetual switching.

19.  Take a cooking class.

20.  Take a Windjammer Cruise.

21.  Visit the Caribbean.

22. Go to Vegas.

23.  See all 50 states.

24.  Learn to make really great sushi.

25.  Own a house again.

26.  Publish something – other than my blogs of course.  I mean something people will really read.

27.  Learn to grow roses.

28.  Have a really huge garden.

29.  Own a fantastic little black dress with the perfect shoes.

30.  Go snorkeling.

31.  Learn to scuba dive.

32.  Have a positive impact on one other person and know it.

33. Take a really great vacation all by myself.

34.  Renew my marriage vows.

35.  Get a Pro-Stock license.

36.  Knit a pair of socks.

37.  Make Discover Indies a success.

38.  Master Yoga Class.

39.  Get my black belt.

40.  Live near a city with an airport big enough to actually offer last minute cheap airfares.

41.  Throw just one fabulous party that even my family would come to.

42.  Go whitewater rafting.

43.  See the Grand Canyon.

44.  Camp in Yellowstone National Park.

45. Visit Napa Valley.

46.  Visit New York City.

47.  Visit Washington D.C. again.  I think I was too young to appreciate it last time.

48.  See the Redskins beat Dallas at FedEx.

49.  Take advantage of some of those last minute airfares I am finally close enough to get.

50.  Take my kids (all 7) on one great vacation.  Given how scattered the oldest are, this could be a huge “opportunity”.

I really suck at titles for blog posts, right?

So what’s new?  We are still waiting for orders.  Nice.

Friday’s my birthday and the annual case of pissed off has come early.  Nice.

I’m lonesome, bored and grumpy.  In fact I am probably lonesome because I’ve declared myself mostly unfit for human consumption.  Last week, we went to get Texas Drivers’ licenses (yup, I’m fixin’ to leave and I converted anyway) and my social security card – which has been in my wallet for at least a decade – wasn’t there.  Well, I had all my other documentation except for that and the clerk wouldn’t give me a break and I went OFF on her.  It wasn’t even her fault.  It was totally uncharacteristic of me and I was so ashamed of myself that after going down the road a piece to get verification of my social security number and order a replacement, I made a point to go back to that office and apologize for being a total bitch.  DH was with me and I had to confess to him that I am not happy with one single aspect of life at the moment.

No, I’m not hitting my friend the Lexapro just yet, but the kids are driving me nuts, the hubby’s crankiness with his class (you know something I have TOTAL control over), and my sheer, complete and utter boredom are just a bit more than I feel like dealing with.  I miss school (or just having a freakin’ job!), I’m sick to death of homeschooling and the “I didn’t feel like doing it so I’m just going to say “I don’t know” when you ask me why my homework is done” syndrome.  This is an ongoing problem as is the “You failed it.  Again.  Do it over.  Again” complex.  I am 100% sure (in case I haven’t said this before) that we will not under any circumstances homeschool next year.

Now I wish I knew the way out of this funk…Orders might help.  A job would for sure.  Neither is within my control.  I’ll start with a nap.

Pissed off… It’s not just for breakfast anymore.

The mood here in Juarez del Norte is thick.  Thick with stress, thick with unexpressed anger, thick with everything that accents the sucky parts of Army life.  It’s assignment time (well, two to four months ago was assignment time).  There are those with unwelcome assignments, impending deployments, etc.  There are those for whom the Army can’t seem to get it together and then…

there’s us.  The AGRs are in a great state of flux that is hopefully ending soon.  Initially, the AGR MSG’s were going to be held over until after the SGM board results come out in July(How’s that for alphabet soup?).  Thankfully, someone put a bug in the right ear and that has changed.  Hopefully, we’ll have orders this week and hopefully they won’t be for Harlingen.  Wichita isn’t my first choice, but it isn’t Harlingen and that, my friends is something.

But the net effect of all this in-limbo-ness and this “I don’t want to go there”-ness is that everyone is cranky.  Rather than adapting a “Fuck it, let’s have some fun!” we’re all collectively kind of crawling into our shells and waiting for the moving trucks to arrive.  It sucks.  It escalates the suckiness of remedial Army kindergarten to a different level.  All this uncertainty and unhappiness dominates conversation and just makes us crabbier as we absorb our friend’s pissed off, add it to our own and pass it along the line.    Add a crabby-sick-of-school-this-is-a-total-waste husband in the picture and you may as well forget it.  We’re all crawling into our closets  and cleaning out our stuff and just waiting for this to be over with.  Unfortunately, without orders, no one knows when that will be.

1 Bag, Five Dinners Update

I know you want to know, right?  Here’s the deal:  Everything was fine.  The family was willing to eat everything and did.  The macaroni and cheese was a big hit with the  boys.  I’d liken it to a chain restaurant and most of you know how I feel about those.  I’d recommend it for cooks with limited skill and imagination but for the rest of us, I think we can do better.

Sort of like I should with the blogging ;)

Updates – Because I Know You Want to Know…

A few weeks ago, Becca blogged about the atmosphere here in HP, TX.  And she’s 100% correct.  People are tired.  Some of me us consider the past 8 months a total waste of time, are tired of hearing complaints about it and would like to thank the Army for screwing with them on this level yet again.  Some people are a bit more settled – they have orders even and can make plans.  Others have had their assignment instructions changed twice already – Fort Campbell to Aberbeen Proving Grounds and now to Fort Lee, VA but at least they appear to finally know where they’re going.  They also know that they get to leave here for somewhere in early June.  And then, of course, there’s the AGR.

I have developed an extremely pissy attitude(okay, pissier attitude) and I’m not afraid to share it.  At this point in time, truthfully, we are 100% not sure about where we will be living six months from now.  We have assignment advice – which is meaningless at this time – sending us to Wichita, Kansas in late September.  It’s better than Harlingen, I’ll grant you, but I’ve been looking for jobs there and it is disheartening.  You know since I am not in school, I need a job.  Not financially but MENTALLY I need a job.  Plus if DiscoverIndies is ever to be a full-on go, I need a little traveling and spending money.  I’m lucky I have a husband who humors my whims in this area.    But the minute I find a job in Wichita, the AGR will send us someplace else.  Wichita also means someone’s going to points east in 2010.  Won’t that be great?  Sure.

Another thing contributing to my pissy attitude is sheer boredom.  We haven’t extended or received any social invitations in a few weeks and I am bored out of my skull.  So I am amusing myself slightly by cooking for the family as though we have actual friends.  Cool huh?  We indulged ourselves in a new gas grill and inaugurated it with a grilled turkey and a grilled ham on Easter Sunday.  The night before, our previous gas grill sealed its fate by having inadequate size to hold three cedar planks for salmon.  Plus it has hot spots and is four years old so it was due for replacement.  Were I a product reviewer, I would tell you that the new grill is phenomenal.  You can even add wood chips of your choice to enhance the flavor.  We used hickory with the turkey and ham and it was phenomenal.  I also highly recommend this as a ham glaze.  Don’t let the “hot pepper” scare you.  It’s not at all hot, just tangy, sweet and delicious.

Did I ever show you these?

Those’d be herbs in pots on the patio and real-live vegetables in containers in my backyard.  The herb pots contain your garden variety assortment of herbs and are doing quite well.  It’s nice to go out back and snip what I need for dinner plus the green breaks up the HP brown.  HP is very, very brown, dusty and windy.  For Sunday’s turkey, I snipped sage, thyme and rosemary.  I know.  Now you’re hungry and no, I don’t care.  If you want to eat my cooking, show up at my house.  It’s pretty simple.  Hell, invite me over!  I’ll cook.  Seriously.  I love cooking.  I even clean up my own messes.

Last a quick update on the 1 bag, 5 dinners thing I promised.  We’re two dinners in.  The shopping list did not fit in 1 bag, but probably would have fit into two and I did have to adjust the recipes and the shopping to feed five or six instead of four as applicable.  The shopping took less than 30 minutes (nice!) and the bill came to about $55.00.  The total was $65 but I had to buy some other stuff so I don’t think that’s too bad.  It doesn’t cover lunches or breakfast though so I’d estimate a weekly grocery bill in the $75 range with those included and closer to $100 per week if you go a little all-in like we have on the weekends.  Cedar plank grilled salmon isn’t cheap but it is totally worth it.

I’m getting really keyed up on being frugal to conserve money for Discover Indies and also to explore whether it is possible to be a frugal grocery shopper without stockpiling.  As an Army family, stockpiling doesn’t make sense because of how often we move and how little storage space military housing typically has.  We have a chest freezer and I do try to use it but we’re already in the stage where we need to start drawing that stash down.  Six months is a long time but some of those big bags of vegetables will take a long time to use up too!  Especially with summer and the welcome anschluss of fresh produce coming.

What suggestions do you have for living frugally without stockpiling?

Stay tuned tomorrow for a totally awesome (long overdue) kids post.

Frugal Fridays, The beginning…

I’m on a mission to save and make some cash, right?  Isn’t everyone?  And I get tons of “money saving tips”  and “fast and easy menu ideas” in my e-mail all the time.  So today and next Friday, I’m going to try one and let you know how it went.  Kraft’s Food & Family magazine is full of recipes and coupons and such.  The price is right (it’s free) so it’s worth a try.

One of the features of the website for Kraft Food & Family is what they’re calling 1 Bag, 5 dinners.  This concept intrigues me so I thought I’d take a look.  The premise is that time and cash strapped shoppers can not only get through the grocery store fast, they can get food on the table in a hurry too.  A key feature of each of the menus I surveyed was frozen “It’s not delivery, it’s DiGiorno!” pizza every Friday.  Pizza and a movie night?  Awesome.  The  copy claims all the ingredients will fit in one bag and all of the menus feed 4 to 6 people.  Nutritional information is included and that is a huge plus for me. The dishes all seem like things my not-too-fussy eaters will enjoy also.

Immediately apparent negatives:  No side dishes are included.  Not a salad, not a vegetable, nothing in most cases.  I can’t see that flying too high in my house.  Now, I should clarify that vegetables are included in a lot of the dishes and one dish features a side of corn on the cob.  However, a cheeseburger by itself is not dinner, know what I mean?

Anyway, I thought that – just for my six loyal blog readers – I would give these a try.  I’ll have to make concessions for the fact that I need to feed five every day so I’ll allow 2 bags but Monday morning, I’ll hit up the store and see if the claims are true.  Next Friday, I’ll review the menus and let you know if they liked it.  Okay?

Have any other things you want me to test and review for you?  Leave me a comment and I’ll see what I can do.

Trying Something New…

I’m turning over some kind of new leaf right? This here blog is going to go in a couple of different directions. I’d never deprive you of a great Khan story – one soon. I must have a place to bitch about the Army or I’ll blow up but I’m also starting to grab the bull by the horns and try to get our financial life back on track. (If you haven’t read about the devastation our next to last PCS caused, feel free to browse the archives.)

I am also really working on unblocking my creativity. It’s lost. I’ve missed it and I am trying to get it back. This blog is going to become a playground for all kinds of different things and I hope you’ll like them. Stay tuned.

Sorry for the hiatus. We’ve had company – not including 1SG Crabass – and with soccer, etc., it’s been busy.